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Posted 7 months ago I am starting this topic in the Ass Kickers lounge for people looking to join or start a Forum Buddy Support Group.
Please use this topic (don't start a new one, OK?) and request they PM you with their email address or Yahoo, Skype, MSN or AIM details, so you can chat...DO NOT POST your details in the forum because anyone on the internet can see it...OK?
Please review my post about this system here:
Also if you find a buddy, please post that you did in this topic, so people will know you're taken care of...OK?
If people start to show interest and form support groups I am considering having weekly, or bi-weekly group meetings on Skype where WE ALL (I will be there too) could chat for an hour or so...what do you think?
P.S. If anyone needs my input post on your NC diary, and then PM me and I will respond ASAP!
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nznz05
offlineMemberi see these posts were a while ago, if anyone needs a buddy PM me
i'd also like to say this support thing is a genius idea s. williams : )
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The proceeds will help maintain my free Blog and Forum. I Thank You for Your Support!Posted 5 months ago nznz05 said:
i see these posts were a while ago, if anyone needs a buddy PM mei'd also like to say this support thing is a genius idea s. williams : )
People helping people...that's what it is all about.
I was hoping it would catch on quicker, but I have noticed it takes a while for things to catch on.
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daisybo said:
hey i could also do with a buddy, think i need to stop boring my friends and speak to someone in same boat!!That's the whole idea behind this forum, and this buddy system.
If nobody contacts you...you contact them, if you someone in here seems like they would make a good buddy...approach them about it, OK?
No contact is only with your ex.
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You guys could form your own yahoo or msn group, and meet weekly and set up times to chat daily.
People with similar situations for example: LDR, Married, Married with children, single, single with children...etc.
Of course because we are world wide time zones have to be considered as well.
If people get these things set up I will make time (by appointment, my schedule is wacky) to join in too.
Put on your thinking caps...instead of worrying about your ex, think about how to help each other, OK?
My job is ...as always, to find a way to get more people in here so we can help them, and have more people to support each other...there is power in numbers, right?
Lets see where this goes...who knows, right?
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SleepingGraves
offlineMemberHello =)
Definitely would be helpful to have someone to talk to...
For me its easier to speak with a woman about relationship issues...so if its possible a female buddy would be ideal.
Thank you everyone,
Best/SG
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Cristal said:
Looking for a support buddy who has dealt with what feels like/may be an indifferent ex boyfriend.Remember if no one replies you can seek out someone whose story sounds like your own, and approach them about supporting each other.
Support is key in your evolution.
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offlineMemberOkay...i am not sure if this is working because i thought i posted a request for a buddy but it isn't showing up in here...so here i go again...lol...i am very new and would love to have a buddy to help me thru this...someone who is a few steps ahead of me...any takers?? lol
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SleepingGraves
offlineMemberas_i_am78 said:
opps...my post was on the second page...lol....i'll figure this out sooner or later hahaHi as I am,
I sent you a pm ( private message ) but thought maybe you wouldn't see that right away, lord knows I missed it for the first week.
Anyhow, I posted for a buddy sometime ago and for some reason never connected with anyone. Would you like to be buddies
I'm roughly 3 weeks into this mess but I'm taking it in stride and working on myself. Let me know okay. Thanks!!/SG
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joanne
offlineMemberhi everyone,
have just started the free plan, and sent the NC message recently. You can check my story at Jo's Break Up Story, and my NC Diary at Jo's NC Diary. Do feel free to comment. Since S.Williams recommended to get a buddy support, have decided if there's anyone interested in helping me through my evolution would be wonderful. Preferably someone with a similar case to mine, and have either been through the same thing and gone through the NC stage for some time already. Someone who has already gone through some evolution. If interested please PM me your contact, but preferably Skype.
P.S. I don't know if this is relevant, but Situation/thinking might be a bit different for my ex and I since I'm from an Asian country. I was brought up in an English speaking study background though.
Posted 4 months ago # -
Whoa Joanne!
You're not ordering a sandwich here.
As long as you two can understand each other that is all that matters.
Break ups and the pain, and confusion they inflict are same no matter what country you're from.
If you don't hear from anyone don't get discouraged.
As you're reading NC diaries and you see someone you feel comfortable with..PM them..it's that easy...OK?
You might try Marianne she is Asian too, and you could help her with her English too.
Good Luck!
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Markatta
offlineMemberBuddy system is a great idea! Who wouldn't need someone special to go to when there is no one else to turn to, and if it is someone who is in the same the situation, all the better. I am available for anyone who needs support. I can tell you right off that theoretically I have it together with life, but when it comes to relationships, I could be from another planet! My five year relationship was my first long one, and I am 44! So I can listen and support you on the life lessons but I am still learning about relationships. I am definitely not dumb (I am blonde though
) but I can be terribly slow at figuring out my own stuff! If you are in to astrology saying that I am a Leo explains it all.I should say that I am in Europe, GMT +1.
Passion is pain - don't want it. Love is not supposed to hurt.Posted 4 months ago #
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